ENERGY PSYCHOLOGY & THE BITCH TAP METHOD™
Have you suppressed your real, deep-down feelings of anger and covered them up with affirmations?
FYI: While affirmations feel good to say at the moment, and sound so positive, they do not provide lasting change. Especially true with long-standing negative self-beliefs and thought patterns.
My area of expertise is in Energy Psychology. As an academically certified Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) practitioner, I learned from the founder and master himself, Gary Craig.
I am also an Emotional Medical Intuitive , enabling me to zero-in on the emotional origins that lie beneath your specific physical or emotional health condition. I use my insights to guide the direction of your healing experience in private sessions.
The Bitch Tap Method™ is my signature laser-focused, non-formulaic approach to tapping.
As a highly powerul healing tool, it allows you to speak-up, stand-up, and take your power back from past bullying events.
It turns off the power of those memories that haunt you and wear down your self-esteem.
The positive effects to your emotional well-being and physical health are profound, significant, and last a lifetime.
We meet for live sessions 3 times a month, on Saturday mornings, for 30 minutes or so. Click on the button to learn more about this unique and private Club.
TRAUMA, AND MY TRAUMA QUEEN VIP PROGRAMS
Do you still suffer from the after-effects of trauma in your life?
It doesn't have to be like that.
Trauma is individual to each person. And trauma doesn’t have to be a catastrophic event or be officially diagnosed for it to be considered “traumatic.”
If you’ve been traumatized, the emotional “stress” afterward is post-traumatic stress, PTS.
If your past trauma has been negatively affecting your life and your relationships for a long period of time, f***ing up your entire life, it’s called post-traumatic stress disorder PTSD.
FYI, what’s traumatic to you may not be considered traumatic for your sibling, parent, or your best friend. The important thing to acknowledge is the way it made you feel.
From an energetic standpoint, no matter the magnitude or intensity of your trauma, (it’s easy to over-intellectualize it down to nothing the older we get), every single negative event in your life however small, still counts and matters.
Owning it will be your first successful step in releasing it. And releasing it is made easy using my methods!
My Six-Week Trauma Queen “No More Trauma Course” uses the Bitch Tap Method™ as the primary tool.
Our primary mission is to insure your success in healing your heart, your mind, and your body by setting you free from old wounds that have held you hostage.
It is designed to teach you how to release your own emotional and physical response to childhood trauma, aka Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) events.
The course is an official “Experience Product”, which means you learn by experiencing as you go through the lessons and live coaching-calls.
In our safe classroom setting , limited to 20 participants, you’ll learn how to find your voice and use your anger as a tool to release the residual energy of your own trauma. Your results are immediate and last a lifetime.
The ripple effect from this course provides a positive shift in every aspect of your life.
More about the curriculum coming soon!
Wonder what makes me a Trauma Queen? Plenty. Okay, I’m self-crowned, but I earned it the hard way.
Early in my career as an EFT practitioner I helped a client, who was my aunt, overcome a pancreatic tumor.
To the point they wheeled her out of her scheduled “Whipple procedure” surgery room, because they could no longer locate the tumor at the head of her pancreas. It was gone.
I wrote an article about it called “The Angry Pancreas” published on Gary Craig’s Emofree Website. It was an overnight sensation that received an enormous global response.
I’ve had thousands of private client experiences world-wide with every form of cancer, from pancreatic to skin, and a host of other life-threatening diseases.
Plus, I'm an Emotional Medical Intuitive.
That means I can see/feel/hear the emotional core of literally any health condition you have and I can see your blind spots, the things not obvious to you. The way it works for me is that I have a very strong sense of cognition within minutes of meeting you either personally or remotely with an amazing degree of accuracy. Those insights guide my private one-on-one sessions with clients making each session highly personalized and highly productive.
For you that means there's no wasting time and money second guessing what your emotional focus should be. It takes the overwhelm out of where to begin tapping. That's especially vital information if you're currently dealing with long standing depression, anxiety, panic attacks, cancer, a serious disease or a chronic pain syndrome.
In the field of Energy Psychology and in the tapping world, I’m an expert in trauma. I have first-hand experience with childhood trauma, and I know first-hand what it feels like to release it from your body forever.
Creator of my signature way of tapping, the Bitch Tap Method™ and by using it on myself, I learned to reign over my own emotions. And I stopped them from ruling over me and destroying my life.
I took back my power as the monarch of my own mind. I now dwell in the castle of never-ending possibilities.
A bit about my own Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) events, my “street cred.”
I was raised with rage. My dad was a disabled veteran who returned home with severe PTSD and a Tramatic Brain Injury (TBI) from a closed head injury, and a boatload of anger from the Navy. Pun intended.
In front of other people just like a cameleon, dad could change in a flash and transform into an affable, funny, and loving father. He had our relatives and family friends completely fooled because they had absolutely no idea he was so out of control and that our lives were in such a mess.
And it f***ed us up. We were a family of secret keepers, with so much shame around it, none of us ever betrayed our less-than-perfect story. Mom was powerless to help him, stop him, or save us from him. Like walking in a minefield, my big brother Louie and I had to learn to tread carefully, because we never knew what would set him off and explode.
By the time I was four years old, I knew deep down inside I wasn’t safe; I was on my own, and I was definitely nobody’s little princess.
The collateral damage of our childhood emotional and physical abuse was devastating. My big brother, Louie, didn’t survive his wounds. He was only 27 years old when he passed away from a drug overdose.
Through tapping I was able to reconcile my hatred and resentment for my father and forgive him with all my heart. By us tapping together, dad and I were finally able to relax and fully enjoy each others company long before he passed away.
Stopping the cycle of our family trauma enabled me to experience the father and daughter love between us that I always dreamed of. I have no regrets, and I'm so grateful for that second chance.
I was hired as a Flight Attendant for Continental Airlines in 1977 when I was 19 years old. It was an exciting time of my life flying stateside domestically and the South Pacific including Honolulu, Hawaii, Nadi, Figi, Auckland, New Zealand, and Sydney, Australia.
I studied people waiting in airports for my next fight, and I experienced hundreds of thousands of different personalities, celebrities, and major sports figures. From my coworkers and their jump seat confessions, I heard stories of pain and betrayal, hopes and dreams, and the issues my gay boyfriends faced in society in the 70s and 80s during what seemed at the time as their own pandemic, AIDS.
I hung up my wings after 10 years. Sky Goddess didn’t fit anymore, I wanted to be a doctor.
Fast-forward to me with 17 years of clinical experience under my belt as a holistic Chiropractic physician before I discovered Energy Psychology.
In private practice, my focus was on fibromyalgia and women’s health conditions. Along with their Chiropractic conditions, many of my patients also had other serious health issues including auto-immune disorders.
Literally thousands of patients later, I discovered that I could clearly see that each illness had their own unique and common emotional running theme. I could also clearly and easily see the source of their wounds just like a home movie, in my mind's eye within minutes of taking their health history. They were stunned by my pointed questions, and I was stunned by their predictable answers. And their wounds all stemmed from trauma.
No shade or blame to those patients, but they had barriers to healing set in place to protect their heart from the possibility of being hurt again. It was specially prevalent with the patients who suffered from fibromyalgia. They had the most profound Anger and Control issues I’ve ever seen.
The intensity levels of their anger varied, ranging from passive-aggressive, to almost palpable anger energy permeating the room the minute they walked through the door.
The overlying control issue that accompanies these conditions is used to control a desired response.... and feel like LOVE.
Their pain was too hard to reach for reasons known only to the patient. I knew in my heart that the pain of lack of nurturing from their mothers (predominantly) had broken their hearts. And that they were profoundly pissed off about it.
Back then I didn't know how to address that hidden layer of health.
Sadly, my fibromyalgia patient’s resistance to healing was so profound, so hard to reach, devastating for them, and especially frustrating for me, that I eventually gave up treating them altogether.
But those clinical experiences motivated me to keep trying different methods of healing, eventually discovering the concept of Energy Psychology and EFT.
After first trying tapping on myself as a sceptic, testing it on my own traumatic events, I was absolutely stunned by my results.
Adding in the influence of the human biofield to heal our emotional and physical health became an absolute fundamental change for me. I retired from clinical practice as a Chiropractic physician to become an EFT practitioner.
And I’ve helped those clients through every manifestation of human trauma you could possibly imagine.
I developed the Bitch Tap Method™ for my seriously ill clients.
They're emotionally blocked, and what I perceive, on emotional lockdown. For their own reasons they can’t access their own anger. I figured everyone knows how to bitch in some form, it turns out, it was exactly what they needed to do, but only if they tapped while they did it to make it productive bitching instead of blowing out a lot of hot air for nothing.
And it worked!
It had to come out, and it did! From grumbling inside your head, to grumbling under your breath, to snide remarks out of the side of your mouth, to full-blown bitching and yelling.
Bitch Tap uses anger as a tool to uncover repressed emotions. Using it makes it faster to get to core issues because it reignites the old pain point so you can get back in touch with it and own it. Only then can you release it.
Faster was important because my late stage cancer patients usually had a small amount of time for us to work together due to their medical treatment schedules like surgery dates, radiation treatments and chemotherapies.
Early on in private practice I found that using the traditional formula of EFT starting with a positive affirmation, trying to get a really sick person to say that they “deeply and completely loved and accepted themselves" didn't land at all, and bounced right off them energetically.
It was time wasted wrestling with their intellect instead of their true emotions.
My other reason for developing Bitch Tapping came from interviewing past clients and workshop attendees who, even though they knew it worked, they gave up on tapping because they couldn't do it just like me. They were afraid to say the wrong thing and do it wrong.
My point is, I know the biofield is activated by percussion pressure (tapping). The energy released is selected by focusing on a specific NEGATIVE event.
Your body and Biofield do not care about how you say it, as long as it’s how you really feel and not how you want to feel - there is a difference. The strongest medicine comes from you speaking your negative truth in your own words.
And that difference is what’s critical to real healing.
My message to the world is that you really can change the trajectory of your life, turn off the energy of the past, and press the reset button.
I’m excited to show you how it’s done!
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